This is a great set of materials and instructions for collecting data on usability. I am doing User Experience design now and will move on to testing soon. I'll try this tool and let people know the results.
Todd Zazelenchuk has developed a usability test data logger, a customised spreadsheet for recording and presenting the results of usability tests. To quote:
Most people use Microsoft Excel to analyse the results of usability tests, but did you know you can use it to collect the data too? This spreadsheet allows you to measure task completion rates, analyse questionnaire data, and summarise participant comments. It even includes a timer so you can measure time-on-task.[Thanks to the eGovernment Resource Centre.]
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I totally agree with what you're saying. I wish more people felt this way and took the time to express themselves. Keep up the great work.
Bert Linert
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we should choose what kind of life partner? How do you know this is for your life partner?
Every time I asked: the personality traits, not character.
how many people know that a murderer may be funny, humorous, rapists may be good at sports, but these people who want to date? Want to choose the right life partner, depends on each other's character.
?? One, character and sense of call?
A constant pursuit of personal growth
object if you continue to pursue personal growth, you half the battle. The biggest problem between husband and wife, one often wants to improve the marital relationship, the other not. If the party do not want to change the marriage would not be happy. Continuing to pursue personal growth, means: one, the other is willing to follow God's word and way of life; two, the other party is willing to accept guidance and help.
in marriage this way, will encounter many problems, the person must trust the teachings of the Bible, I believe the word of God is our feet and a light, road light, and follow the teachings of the various aspects of Caixing. In addition to a happy marriage, the spouse you want to live out God's mind, yoked. Many couples come to the office looking for us, we told him about Mr. or Mrs., but the other did not want to, this is not feasible. People continue to pursue personal growth, will notice their blind spots and problems, set goals, and action to change.
Second, to open
emotional intimacy is not just to share a home, a bed or a bathroom, and to be able to share the feeling. A lot of people unhappy marriage because the spouse can not express feelings, express their feelings with people who can not talk about feelings, is simply self-abuse.
open feeling generous pay can also be said to be emotional, such a person will tell you how much he loves you, how grateful to have you. Generous pay is too mean to pay the contrary, if the stock is limited in general, just to give you a small part of the heart. Stingy to pay feelings, keep hanging your appetite, you have pleaded, only to give you a little bit, like if a big help.
willing to open the emotion is very important, so as to enter each other's inner world, the failure to make access to the keys to your inner world, how can you love?
Third, honesty is honesty
elements of a happy marriage, the spouse can rely on when you know there will be a sense of security. 22nd Matthew chapter 16, said: consistent behavior and beliefs consistent. You say you love his wife, but often in the face of loss of her friends, when the U.S. president to be impeached, Clinton must explain that he and Monica. Miss Lewinsky relationship between the American people are willing to forgive his behavior, but they are hard to let go, Clinton insisted he had no extramarital sex, citing ? I did not have relations with her, she and I a relationship, so it is not sex. This is inconsistent, honesty is what they preach, if you suspect that the honest, you can not respect him.
Fourth, the maturity and responsibility
some people may good to you, but not yet ready to commit themselves to the feelings of. How do I know the emotional commitment to each other in? If the person mature enough economic independence necessary to keep the room clean, good hygiene practices ..., external life will reflect the status of the heart, if your contacts to look dirty, that his heart must be a mess. He did not mature enough to take care of yourself, how could take care of you? He was not ready to put feelings, marriage, let alone a child-rearing. Maturity and age has nothing to do, and responsibility related to sense of responsibility that is to do, what it says. You want to get married, we must know that love to pay duty, can not live like a bachelor in marriage.
five healthy self-esteem
each other more healthy self-esteem, your relationship more solid. How much you can love each other, to see how much he loved himself. Low self-esteem of the people is to love yourself better than before, while people with high self-esteem is to love like love away.
to see how to treat a person yourself, you can know his own views, Letting aspects are reflected in his self-esteem. A self-love of the people may not have money, but his appearance is always clean and tidy. A person who does not care about this self-love, dirty, dirty, it is impossible to love you.
level of self-esteem can be seen from the following points: First, he knew the identity in Christ, he knew he was a new creation, he knows he has a new blessing, and some new authority, he knew he was accepted Jesus, he knows his position in the kingdom of God, he will not abuse their own, will take care of themselves. Secondly, this person will not allow ourselves to be trampled upon. Gentle does not mean weakness, tenderness is the ability to control their emotions and feelings, other people mess with you, you will not easily get angry, but it does not mean you sit idly by and allow themselves to be laughed at, trampled. Low self-esteem usually love to delay, do not like to take action, because he was afraid to fail, to make you hate yourself.
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positive attitude towards life and if you have a person over a lifetime, you will choose a positive or negative person? How many candidates for the negative people, the result is always fear, worry, anxiety, always look at the problem rather than solution, always complaining again and again .... A positive attitude you're looking for people, positive people will have a positive emotional relationship and love grow in a positive atmosphere, but weakened in the negative atmosphere. With positive feelings about people much easier, and conflicts can be resolved quickly,
Note: Kangxi Pastor is director of City Harvest Church Singapore Pastor. Church every Sunday he has 200 people to the Lord.
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Couples in eight kinds should pay attention to and address the inherent obstacles to serious struggle, and five external compatible time bomb. God's responsibility to select an object directly to us, God will guide you, guide you, but the final choice in your hands.
no one is perfect, our character has faults, which is not only a challenge to the feelings, it may become a nightmare. Look at eight kinds of serious emotional killer, if you love object, there is one serious drawback, does not mean you will not have a good relationship, but this disadvantage may cause serious problems, bring your feelings or marriage, a lot of pain.
?First, anger Proverbs ???
Chapter 24: I do not mean some of the normal anger, everyone there is always angry, but the Ephesians verse 26,27: may be appropriate to express anger or frustration, but do not offend God, or so used by the devil.
I refer to the Distended as angry red face, trembling, take the head to the wall with his fist hit the door ..., this is inappropriate.
no one would overnight become a techy person, from the relationship can be seen some small signs, like small flames, to tell you on fire. If you see other problems with anger, let it be afraid, to encourage each other to seek God's help, unless the other truly repent, or do not compromise and stay in this relationship in.
?Second, the victim mentality?
to blame their own problems onto others, Genesis chapters 11: body it? Do you eat I commanded you not to eat the tree of the garden? man said, you have given me, a woman living together with me, she put the fruit of the tree to me, I ate . A victim mentality of the people always blame others.
not responsible for their own life, who did not grow up. The strange thing is, even though they complain about not being loved, is not supported, but can not accept your love and support, because the victim is like to suffer, that clung to their pain, you can manipulate those who harm them, so they do not like to forgive, no matter how much you pay, they feel not enough, no matter how you encourage, they refused happy. If you contact the object, there is such a character flaw, and not willing to change, you stop fooling ourselves, so there will not be the result of feelings, compassion will change to the original indifference, and finally just give up.
?Third, the control freak control freak?
is everything up to him, he will do everything possible to avoid the situation out of control, emotional relationship that will create problems.
difficult to open the inner control freak, he does not want you to see the vulnerable side, you do not like to admit that he needs. Followed by heavy possessive or jealous, they want to have control of your time, control your entire life.
control freak is usually sexual life in marriage, because if you want to enjoy sex, we must let go, and control is difficult to let go mad. Usually workaholic control freak or authoritarian, critical parents. This defect most die hard, because you must let go and let God take over, and that the practice violated the control freak.
?four character promiscuous?
Corinthians chapters 11, said non-promiscuous, and the line between the brothers, even such a person and his dinner are not. I want to talk about two kinds of immoral character, one of pornography addiction, Americans Clinton's impeachment, let us see the problems this generation is for porn addiction. When the other party to talk about some of the debauchery in dating or sexually suggestive things, do not think he was brought back your libido, in marriage if he can not respect your body, do not expect him in the marriage can really love you. Pornography will destroy the intimacy, the printing of some of the provocative magazine, known for sex feeding is in fact to a third party into your imagination, you say you love her spouse, but then there are third parties sexual fantasies, is the spouse infidelity.
two is the lack of loyalty concept. Job ?? chapter one, I stand with my own eyes about, not watching a virgin. If your contacts to flirt with others, staring at someone else's body look for your friends or even strangers, to tell you of some of the reviews, or other people have inappropriate physical touching, or the occurrence of others sexual relations, these are not appropriate, the lack of loyalty concept.
relying on God's ability and good counseling, sexual addiction can be healed, if you are in private sexual addiction, if you lack the concept of loyalty, God can free you free, but you must take to face, ignored and not solve the problem.
such shortcomings of men and women do not want to show a mature responsible attitude, to force their partner to play the role of parents. Third chapter of I Corinthians 11 says, , but not naive, you do find an adult partner, a reliable person. When you and an unreliable people together, will eventually lose the trust and respect he will.
yet another symptom of growing up is negative, there is no motivation, no direction in life, always has been reluctant to make decisions. There are some ambitious men and women in business, not even enough money to support their families, no savings bank, children's education fees ... there is not enough; If the person always want something for nothing, he is not grown up.
?six emotions can not open?
I want to tell you frankly, do not close the object and emotional exchanges, Splendor in the Grass, why choose a can not open the feelings, a lifetime of hard to squeeze from each other a little bit of emotion! Some adults can not express emotion, because in the past suffered great harm. If the other party can not tell you to express feelings, your relationship is superficial and full of frustration, you will become a can opener, very hard trying to open the jar, You want to marry me, but you are not there to say to me? The other side are supposed to express some basic feelings, happy, sad,beats by dre sale, disappointed, excited, eager, loving, if the other party can not, is not ready to talk about feelings. The solution is what? Ask God to heal wounded feelings, improve communication skills. Just a good man, can not guarantee that the feelings will last, the other must be willing to demolish the wall to protect their hearts, or only in the emotional tug of war, almost equal to each other as you open the heart, and finally put the other side you push.
?seven, before a relationship has not been put down?
if the other party has not put a relationship before, you only pain and disappointment. I often asked Dating dignitaries a problem: your ex-girlfriend or ex boyfriend what kind of person? If the other answer is harsh, hate, I suggest that you do not talk to his contacts, the more angry because the heart thing of the past, the more difficult to love. In addition, if the other party is still guilty of an object before, that should be responsible, he has not yet recovered.
Secondly, the other still live in the past the trauma of abuse? Each other's emotions are very fragile? Does not trust you? Is often an object before you cry in front of what hurt her? If so, the other side of the heart may not yet be cured, but can not talk about feelings, give her time to be the main healing, you do not play the role of savior, if you are too early into this relationship, Proverbs eighth chapter 14, said: people have the disease, the heart can bear, sad soul, who can assume it?
?eight, childhood psychological trauma?
childhood emotional baggage which often take us into the emotional life? First, sexual abuse or injury. Many victims of sexual abuse is difficult to have intimate relationships, because they live in the past, such people tend to have obesity problems. The United States has conducted a survey, extremely obese women, 90% had been subjected to childhood injury, because they want the appearance of building the wall, to protect the little girl inside.
Second, gender confusion. The boy has been sexually assaulted his uncle, led to his confusion.
third is physical or verbal abuse. Your child was severely beaten before? Your home is full of growing anger, arguing again and again it? Your father always call you stupid, no matter how hard you do? You see parents or physical or verbal abuse in the other? Physical abuse and verbal abuse are very painful.
four are abandoned by their parents. Perhaps their parents divorce, death, you give it away to adoption; may be emotional alienation, although the parents, but then you turn a blind eye. Feeling of being abandoned by their parents, often difficult to give an undertaking that they protect themselves, because they do not want to be loved once again abandoned, insecure, possessive, can not trust people. Children abandoned by their parents facing a very serious long General Assembly, the problem is pathological dependence. Did you know people who go on an apology? This is very difficult to communicate with you, it is difficult to trust you, and very vulnerable to addiction, in this way to face the pressure.
five wrong religion. Maybe you grew up in heresy the church or temple, they tell you sex is evil, unclean, holy is the prohibition of all desire, can not have passion, can not listen to music, can not play ... so extreme false teachings, will so you grow up mentally ill.
we have seen eight kinds of serious faults, which are inherent obstacles and struggles. Some other external obstacles, is compatible with a time bomb, when a pair of busy men and women fall in love, it is usually not going to address these issues, until the reality of combat experience, was compelled to solve. There are five compatible with a time bomb that can destroy the feelings.
an age gap is too large age difference between husband and wife
If you and your partner a difference four years old, will not be much difference if the difference between the old or more, will cause many difficulties. Such as patience, the elderly are usually the young one will feel impatient; well respected, the young due to lack of life experience, older parents may be put on the style. Marriage is two people into an equal relationship, if one much older than the other, very difficult to equal, the elderly experience menopause earlier, the appearance of getting old, decreased sexual desire, but the young still,
I am not saying too much age difference can not be successful marriage, the age gap as well, can stimulate the growth of the other, Moreover, the impact of the age gap will become smaller and smaller as she grew older. For example, Abraham 100 years old, Sarah is 90 years old 100 years old and 90-year-old almost the same, but the 20-year-old and 30-year-old big difference. If you love a big age difference between the object, because as you take a very serious commitment.
Second, the spiritual beliefs of different compatible
second time bomb, an explosion will often surprise, because when love is not about spiritual beliefs and values, not about life The destination and purpose, but when feelings gradually mature and serious, the importance of this will emerge, the more different, more fierce blast.
Corinthians chapters 14 and 15 sections: Christ and Satan, and what with it? believers and non believers what coherence? I'm not saying do not believe religion is a bad spouse, but you have very different spiritual beliefs. But not the same faith can, even if the other is Christian, his religion's views? He committed God's view? His character training, prayer, tithing view? His attitude to life is godly, consecrated? If you are married, but spouses do not believe in the Lord, you can light into the darkness, the Bible says, one person saved, the family will be saved, you have to trust in God, the spouse will be saved.
three different social, ethnic or educational background
sound feelings can be said is built on the same point each, the same interests, the same spiritual values ??and beliefs, the same vision and style, the same view. I am not saying all the views you and the other to be the same, or have all experienced the same, but too many differences, will bring too much pressure, the marriage can not be happy.
If you ignore the large gap between the two, when you can not hide true feelings, the conflict will be out of control. And if the same two backgrounds, values ??will differ ? often dealing with people, demeanor, about money, parenting attitudes, life goals, etc. will be different, your values ??will affect their daily lives, every day in these things on the struggle, there will be stress and conflict.
four, everything should interfere with parents
everything should interfere with the parents, is compatible with a time bomb, always later explosion. They treat you pretty good marriage, once married, you become their number one enemy, may have to wait until you have children, the problem will be broke. Problem? Is the line, everything should interfere with the parents, not respect the boundaries between with you, they will drain your time and effort.
example, has been calling to you, usually older or in poor health of parents, children will be asked to spend a lot of time on them. Parents may also drive a wedge between the feelings of the children with their spouses, her in-laws to something unpleasant to you so much noise, you scolded, and cried with her husband, he was angry why do not you take along with his mother, you get not only the support of her husband , but was misunderstood.
When you see someone on a heavy emotional burden of parents, parents that he owed too much kindness, that he was not emotionally independent, not ready to tell you to establish a mature feeling. If you are married, there is always hope in the Lord, especially the husband, set to be gentle and firm boundaries, God will give you sufficient grace to do it, do not need to tear with their parents face, as long as they honor, when you home, parents will be willing to respect your boundaries.
five, separated by the two fall in love
This is a time bomb, because the two apart will be landscaped to the feelings of love, not always take the time to get along, stand back to see what all perfect, approached, only to find not perfect. In the experience stress or crisis response, can not see each other look bad mood or tired, sick or scared when he would react.
Secondly, separated the two fall in love, they tend to avoid the problem, because the limited time to spend, they can not sit down and talk about the issue properly, it can not learn to work together to solve problems, or is to establish deeper feelings, unresolved issues in there, like a time bomb like tick tick, one day it exploded. Third, you can not actually get to see each other do not fit together. Many people think marriage is very confused, you is not the case before ah? Do not fool, and rave over, is now full-time marriage, your personality, if not come together, will soon find that time is too late.
? ?? Conclusion
God's responsibility to select an object directly to us, God will lead you, guide you, but the final choice in your hands So we have to go search and selection.
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life of a most important choice is to accept Jesus as Savior of life, the second important choice is to get married or not married. Selection of life partner, your marriage will be like in heaven as well, otherwise it will be like in hell pain.
Singapore every four in half with a pair of divorce, the importance of marriage came in business, finance, house, education after the age of marriage later and later, the marriage really so terrible, people do not want to experience life ? Or the marriage is blessed?
? ?? marriage is God established marriage
I believe is extremely good, God established from the outset of the marriage, Genesis, Cap 18 : The Lord God said: perfect, except for one thing - one of Adam alone, very lonely.
God do not know that Eve came, the devil will go to test her? God do not know that Eve would fall into the temptation, because of all mankind by the sin of Adam and the curse? God of course, know, know a woman is to create an adventure, but God is more concerned about Adam's character, rather than comfortable.
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marriage character-lonely people is often due to construction of the wall rather than build a bridge, a character who will build bridges of communication with others, not will only live for themselves, care about others, to share with others, listen, love and forgiveness.
If a single person of Adam, he needs to forgive others? He needs to protect others? He needs to supply others? No. Adam could have been all alone to enjoy the comfort and wealth, but God care more about his character, rather than a comfortable life.
Adam to be married in order to cultivate a character of a man all the others, so marriage is a blessing from God, a solid healthy marriage, will experience the satisfaction and joy, but most importantly, good Marriage can develop character, so that you become God's own heart who together, make you grow spiritually, when Jesus comes again, can make a beautiful bride.
responsibility? ??
mate selection of life partner, I have to say one thing, God does not choose life partner for you. Know who is best for you, but the final choice in your hands, God has the responsibility of all to you mate, not only because a prophecy, just marry someone, we do not underestimate the importance of prophecy, but this is not God's way.
Proverbs eighth chapter 22: Is you. God will guide you, instruct you, you have to read the Bible, but the final choice in your hands, do not go, you had to single life.
myth? ??
love how do you know who is the right partner? Most people's view of love, often childish immature, I love to share three deadly myths, these myths that we hold the wrong idea of ??love, can not be wise to mate.
first myth: true love can conquer all
have love on the line, as long as we love each other, marriage will be happy. As long as I love him, he alcoholism does not matter, he always criticized me it does not matter, he was idle, philandering ... no, I just always love him like, love can conquer all.
we see Isaac and Rebekah's marriage: they love at first sight, is simply perfect for each other, both parents agree that all conditions have a happy marriage, but their marital happiness? Isaac, Rebekah was ceded to the king as a concubine, Rebekah abetting his son lying on his father, ruined a good home.
so light there is romantic love, can not guarantee a happy marriage. If you believe this myth, first, you do not seriously address the problem of the relationship, as long as love, conflict and differences of the strike does not matter! Second, when the fade of love, you think just a little more love, you can save the relationship, but the reality is, the light of love can not make a lasting affection, but also the right to each other, and committed determination.
second myth: love at first sight is the love
is how do you know him? I just know it! When I he (she) appears, I will know. This myth is dangerous: first impression may not be able to continue. Many couples think that a good first impression, the feelings of the future will be happy, but because there is no face reality, feelings, or go elsewhere.
second danger is that you might miss the truly long-lasting love. Many people In fact, passion can produce within a few seconds, but true love takes time.
third danger is that sometimes you think you love someone, love is only one image only. My boyfriend is a doctor, my girlfriend has the devil ... you did not even notice what the other is a man, perhaps his best performance, but the character is poor, you fall in love with his image.
third myth: the perfect spouse can satisfy your
many people do not consciously want their spouses to meet all his needs, that as long to find the perfect spouse, you can be in all respects met.
not make you love anything and everything, and love to give and share. Selection of partners to meet your many needs, but not all needs. If you feel spiritual emptiness before marriage, marriage will still be empty. In fact, the vacancy in the human mind, only the charge of life by the Holy Spirit, the Holy Spirit in order to be filled.
? ?? eight kinds of feelings do not result
one you care about each other more
you love, do not determine the other ideas; you think you are right, he seems to disagree; he is not when you want him, you did not, he seems different, does that mean?
, will be the turn of the phenomenon, the two take turns playing the role of the pursuit and the pursuit; but if there is one who always plays the pursuit of such feelings is not perfect, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel by the other control You will feel angry, cheated and pain.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other the future might look like, that he did not your partner, but you transform the object.
every time we are asked to make pre-marital counseling, if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied? If you still want to change each other, they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling with the happiness of both sides as a bet.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Physiognomy, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with his current look.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel that the other is miserable? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? If you are not afraid to leave the other side, he will not stand against? If so, you are probably a
Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, not loved, aggrieved person, you love by the pity of Health, he will appreciate your heart, this feeling like a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
so we do not encourage counseling brothers, sisters, brothers or sisters, counseling, because 70% of people by pity for the students love. As a rescue mission, often mistaken for love is to sympathize.
key to remember here is .
four, the other as object of worship
young actress fell in love with the director, professor of college students fall in love, fall in love with the boss ... secretary, fell in love with the object of worship, which kinds of feelings difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not be treated equally.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean position, but the attitude, not idolize each other. Will fall in love with the objects of worship, usually self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
Jesus said: You shall love your neighbor as yourself, if you can not love yourself, how to love others? If you idolize each other, this feeling will not result.
five, you are just attracted by each other's appearance so
everyone, right? If you find a character that they have been attracted to each other, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of blue eyes, magnetic sound ... if the other party is not a model, will not play basketball ..., I will tell him (her) together? a work, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other .... You go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel as if falling in love .... Short morning till evening, is in exceptional circumstances in a scrape, not on track, this feeling can not be sustained, because the short period of time from morning till evening, so that you can not fully understand each other's personality.
seven to treason before choosing this object
parents always told you stressed the need to find a rich object, happens every boyfriend you are a pauper; parents of your childhood strict rules, but why every girlfriend you are casually; young father imparting instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not raw, just do not want students ....
If you selected an object, always make their parents angry, it is possible that you just want to rebel, you felt the need to prove anything to fight back, when you can not control their own choices, you do not really love each other, this relationship is doomed to no avail.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
I take the point for last, because it can not be emotional. Choose life partner is the first premise - the other is
If you fall in love with the man promised to break up earlier and another woman; or he says he does not love the woman he loved you; or his original object accept your existence, they do not intend to break up, but he wants with you for a while; or he just broke up, but it may reunion ... These are not free itself.
married or not and object to people, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you just received another person with leftover parts.
? ?? Conclusion
choice in your hands, the responsibility of your body, you have to choose the right person. If you have a contact object, and you are feeling one of the eight mentioned above, go to counseling, do not waste time, there are better objects waiting for you. If you are married, and the original is one of the eight emotions, God can do miracles, your marriage can go on.
Kangxi pastor of
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more exciting log:
one drinking incident
fast one year old daughter, what are curious, especially for drinking fountains switch curious, very worried about her grandmother with her has been watching and stop block, to know that this is very difficult matter, adults always have the time away, while the daughter is in a walker can move around inside the. So I decided not to look at the water dispenser switch is not very dangerous, as long as one to let go the water will stop, its been on tenterhooks as she looked hot to be useful once more, and soon she was to hot to, and remember this is dangerous, in a very long period of time not to go touch. By the way I told her to stop her because we have this thing is dangerous, so keep in mind that adults stop you moving everything makes sense, do not think year-old children do not understand, in fact, they will listen to understand. Well, the girl is too early to understand that the boy would come later.
II socket event
daughter soon two years old, on the wall outlet holes are interested in, so I brought her tape recorder and told her the hole in the wall of an electric, a tape recorder necessary, insert the plug when the need to hold back the plastic part of this security, if the metal took the previous two will die, and when the plug socket with wet hands is going to die. Daughter of the dead is still very awe, though not necessarily understand the specific will happen, but in short, a very bad very terrible things. In less than two years old she learned the days of plug sockets, from that day on we often call her to help me plug XX about this kind of socket, she has dragged her tape recorder to listen to this room, again and again to the room Listen, do not beg us to help her. Well, she was very safe to live now, never touch before electricity, I would not worry about her shock, I even told her, if you see a wire you want to know is live, you can hand back go try, there is power, then you will be hit would be a little pain a little buzz, but remember that the heart must not grab his hand, will encounter bounce back, no risk, will pay close attention across the palm, it is a terrible.
three dress for her daughter two years old suffer PP
bath are to wear their own clothes, but he wears the novelty had lost, it will try to be lazy. One day, showered, and wearing half the clothes, said to me, mother, you help me dress it. I am very happy to say, can, however conditional, to help you wear a one you let me beat it, I like to play up the PP you feel. She considered a moment agree to exchange, so I help her to wear two socks for a couple of PP, I still remember that I played two hands sore the next. After using her face is very embarrassing, and I was very intoxicated PP in there to admire her how to play up the feel good, the name will make people addicted. . . . . . The next day, dressed very Hi, when I offered to help her skin dripping clothes, and beat her repeatedly stated too fond of the feeling of PP, I hope she not give me a chance to enjoy.
course, now I have not been able to find the opportunity to enjoy.
four, his daughter home
two and a half, and also on the small class for some time, know how deep red light stop green line rules.
there are times I took her shopping in the downtown area told her that I'm going to look flat and asked if she could know the way home, whether their own home, of course, she thought no problem, so far with me behind her, to see how she go home. Daughter very seriously at each intersection traffic lights, even in one of the intersection until the sixth green when it is over. Later I learned that she not only look green, but also over time to see if there is no other car may be red light, was confirmed by a 100% safe.
in fact responsible for their own children, when that's more responsible than adults.
five insect is very cute creatures
I was very afraid of those soft Papa's Rouchong, although aware of this stuff is harmless, but is afraid ah.
children do not know how afraid I am selfish is to teach my daughter not afraid of the future can help block insects. Then one day a pest of peaches only, I told her wormy peaches sweeter, and that is very cute inside the insect, and fertilizer in vain, will be crawling. Daughter asked the bugs will not bite me, I answered, these insects are vegetarian, and you are dirty, too old for biting insects is also fixed.
quite believe her, she caught the bug crawling around to see it in his hand, palm back and forth to climb, crawl back into the left hand right hand left hand climbing, eating the insects on the table looking piece of insects to eat, climb far away come back again to continue watching. I, I, I scream pressure in the throat, can not make the fear of expression, if I was a little frightened, from the daughter of harmless insects would have been afraid that somehow, I always remember that I is how to finish the meal.
she began to bring back a variety of domestic, large and small caterpillars, and finally my nerves became very strong, and actually no longer afraid of fertilizer soft insects, and then found some caterpillars look round the brain actually quite cartoon. We always hope will keep out the butterflies, the fact that, all of which eventually grew into large and small caterpillars of moths.
six sex
will ask myself every child comes from, I have been waiting, and finally she asked, and I then took her to buy two human anatomy, but also find two outline. And detailed explanation of all the organs, each organ functions, including of course the men and women's reproductive organs, she is come from no matter how out. Conclusion is that how come in on how to go out, but came in time to the microscope to see, came out ten months after the baby is a big one. Just general knowledge only, tell the truth, I think so, so her daughter and it will accept, is also no mystery. Was so thorough in understanding, the daughter is no longer interested, others tease her, she would look more to tell their own quiet drops come from, everyone is so out.
seven, lying on the ground crying and crying
daughter rarely used as a means to achieve their goals, because never once succeeded, after seeing on a small small success stories, so live it in one day to and we ate porridge or to a separate section below her lay down on the ground. Why on why we go to the family, when she was air. Like to thank my mother, she is beginning a sweeping, when sweeping to the place where her daughter lay, said to her, come to lie in the past that, here I want to sweep the floor, not blocked off, I play you and then lie down sweep back. Then her daughter moved to continue lying to cry, one would say, well, I put a clean sweep here, you can lie back. Two and a half old daughter actually really a place to lay back and humming. Our whole family went into hiding laughter. When the daughter of a half-hour of air finally found success stories of others can not succeed in her, to please get up, I feel that porridge is also good to eat, and finished his P P Britain Great Britain ran a clean to eat porridge .
Until now, I never again saw her lying on the ground crying as a means to an end. In fact, many children act just to test the first time on the block, there will be no second time the same basic behavior.
eight, do not eat their own losses, other than the
day before meals quarrel with me, put a heavy bowl on the table and said fiercely, see you on its hands, I do not eat . I immediately said, you can, but not until the next meal you can eat anything. Daughter started a little timid, to say I am not saying I do not eat, just do not eat with you, so you eat my food again. I answered her, or eat now, or you keep the next meal and then eat, there is no third choice. She said that I do not eat Qi Gugu.
reason we finished off the stage and began grinning discussion, how to have a silly people, do not actually get to eat to threaten others, they do not eat other people are not hungry, laughable people actually get hungry they have to threaten others, ha ha ha ha ha. . . . . . . So the cost of a meal to hungry, to take her daughter to understand the harm their own to threaten others, is the stupid thing. A similar thing never in her life appeared.
nine, limited toys, unlimited fun
her daughter to a big toy is extremely limited, the basic no electric, all the toys to get a large bags will be loaded up.
so little toys, not because of economic reasons, because the more children the less simple toy, the more easy to concentrate the attention, imagination, the more rich, more know how to cherish things.
children like to play in the water, her daughter is no exception, my condition is that you can play in the water, but only to the bathroom, and play well to get yourself to the bathroom clean. A keg of a basin, an empty Coke bottle, plus a funnel, a spoon can while away a whole afternoon, she would with a small bucket of water bottle or spoon a little bit to get big Coke bottle, sometimes with and sometimes without the funnel, fill bottle poured into a basin, bowl full of water re-use the same method to get into the bucket, sometimes the tools of various sizes according to the basin by the bucket, fill water without water by half by adding water by, is forward by anti-a by, think of all the circumstances, a person having all the fun, and never tired before.
small classes, the daughter can sit there an hour or two focus to concentrate on doing one thing.
Teletubbies was the favorite daughter of the programs, the mall also has to sell, she liked, so I told her that she can have a birthday when she can pick one in four in the second year of Her birthday baby until a second antenna, after the long wait to get things that are worth treasuring. Starting from the hour of her most want to wait for things to go through to get the longest wait for a whole year. So now she cherished for the things that are very, very clear value, and what would you want to consider carefully whether you really need.
ten, learn to write is the need to learn to write quota
The number, and bought a Miao Hong, to the daughter, then told her that there is a quota, only a day write half a page, can not exceed.
children learn things from the start is always very interested in, and wished he could write off about half of this, wrote a very happy day when the quota ran out, closing the book out, find useless, only write tomorrow. Then developed a habit to write out a half page every day until a certain pleasure. Very relaxed and happy to complete this process, learn to write numbers.
key is to maintain the mystery, has been suspended by her, bring her interest and curiosity, to find her learn to write, she turned to ask you to write more, but must not be promised, continue to use quotas to hanging her until the task is completed.
XI, less than two years old daughter to share
(suddenly found that most of the corrective actions have occurred in the shape less than three years old) her grandmother often crowded to buy shrimp fried shrimp for her to eat, there are times I have seen, took a few try chopsticks, my daughter said, how do you eat the shrimp. I replied, Who is your shrimp, picked up the spoon to eat spoonfuls of half of severely daughter react, rush to grab me to eat, but how she grabbed me, how to grab me. . . . . . Hey! Daughter looked out the shrimp bowl empty tears down, I told her, something no one can eat, nothing is a person you, how to eat to how we want to eat. From that day where she likes to eat a certain point I have to go half the children is a good education, she soon got used to share.
sometimes see she liked to eat, we want her to eat a little, I would say that this pain can not bite anything, or I do not like this stuff. . . . . . And so looks reasonable excuse, do yourself a favor to help me eat it, must seek to use her breath, she felt she was busy helping you (of course such things can not be doing too much, more on the senseless), then her daughter would eat happily, this is unexpected to be happy. If you do not learn to share, the child will think that he deserves, and did not feel happy, but as long as someone points out even a small mouth are angry; and even if it is used to share the child will eat to a surprised and happy. Eat less does not affect the life, know how to share, easy to be happy state of mind will benefit children for life.
XII himself get
relatively small, (really forget what year, but it must be less than three years old) to take her downstairs after dinner to play every day, many children on the square, some children will bring some toys down, sometimes like to play without her say, begged me to help her to say. Of course, I flatly refused, telling her that this is something you want to play, or play your own to discuss borrowed, or do not play. Endure a few days, and finally she had to borrow his first step out of the same play, of course, sometimes borrow, but most of the time or successfully borrow. As long as a success, and it was much easier after the children are Zilai Shu biological ah. She later found with a kind of toy down, play with people switching to more easily play want to play their own stuff, well, you get.
XIII, the failure of talent training
small children totally dependent on adults to survive, they can not protect themselves, so the old days to give them a gift, that is fine to judge the tone to distinguish adult, slightly larger living environment they will observe the subtle, even a little tiny changes can be found, which is the natural or animal instincts, because they can not protect themselves, so very sensitive to environmental change. When a child two years old, when almost all of the children's parents will find very observant, and almost never forget, then parents will be pleasantly surprised, but soon, when they grow up, growing capabilities, talent will gradually disappear, how to keep it this fleeting talent.
this point, I was a failure, the method is simple, but sustained at least six years old. . . . . . Unfortunately, the opportunity will not have missed.
every night reading a story to the children, when children will be opening speech, let him repeat the story came out yesterday, could not speak to read it again (please believe that the child's memory of talent), to repeat them to continue reading the next period, from short to long day after day, consistently, 56 years old, you will find that the child had the ear can not forget, the night before the big stories in listening to it again the next night you can almost verbatim on the back out. The latter part of the story because you can completely back out, put up their own books to read, according to the book of word recognition is simply a natural thing. This requires a strong parental patience and perseverance (blame a thousand times), every child in fact never forget the genius.
my cousin was successful, after I failed to understand her parents she was more powerful in order to create such a genius.
fourth, fell, bleeding
daughter on the outside fell, got up and found a lot of broken skin, bleeding, and nervous. I squat observation, smiling and said to her, ah, bleeding, and we go back and find a bowl of this blood filled up it, it can burn pot soup of blood, it is up to, do not waste friends. Look on her strained nerves relaxed.
home, I help her out of alcohol disinfection, talk to her shows, this is used to disinfect, put on broken skin may be painful, but it, could not bear the pain, the wound may become infected, Maybe this piece of meat will rot, to flesh out a more painful time, or bacteria into the blood had sepsis, it will die. Daughter thought, said, that you disinfect it, I can tolerate it.
fifth, on a small dental
small daughter, finally quit the bottle dangling from his sleeping habits, but her two front teeth because of long soak in the milk, the bore out the point, So what I plan to take her to the repair, the more boring the greater province.
informing her that her teeth bore out that, if not addressed, will develop permanent damage to her, if you take her to repair teeth, treatment time may be a little pain would be a blood, but all not too severe, then asked her, you see, is not going to fix it. Daughter agrees. Sit in the dentist's chair, the doctor can not start, I had to surface again when the doctor asked her once again to be sure, the doctor earth trembling hands, her mouth open the whole process the wood is generally motionless, and afterwards told me that you said you would a little pain, and that was not pain. I saw a lot riding on the chair like a butcher as a child, the doctor is unable to meet such a cool against the teeth of the children to fill. Why be so cool
daughter, because I informed in advance may happen, such as pain, such as bleeding, she had prepared, also not afraid. Resistance may be more children crying not because of pain, but the instinctive fear of the unknown damage.
so do not think small children, deceive on it, they will remember you fool, will not trust you, next time lie not so easy. Do not underestimate the capacity of the child, telling the truth will make them trust you more, so that the pain they may be psychologically prepared, they can bear the pain is very small creatures. XVI corporal punishment
then behaved children, there will provoke the parents to bristle, hoping to teach a slap shot when he died, Otherwise, it is not a child is a puppet.
One day, I am worried they will not help her a slap down in front, good birds out of the heart the mouth air. But the anger is so, or suffer internal injuries may be, it will be like when the Yellow River dike hands, then beat up close can not be beat hand, beat the child's parents a lot of excuses for the child, in fact, more to their own hearts breath. This is his daughter, so only internal injuries.
I said to her daughter, the last to remind you once, I'll hit you if you commit, and commit a beat, made two hit twice, the third play looked, each doubled. Daughter said, no. I said, additional conditions, punishment is good when you have your pants off beating the bed, if you refuse, then I caught a hit, beat or two changes, two changes play looked, in short double.
she challenge me, challenge me, challenge me. . . . . . Finally, I let her free to pick a place penalty, she picked a room, and onlookers not cleared, lock the door, beating their pants off. For her, this is a very shameful thing, but it is also a very effective way to discipline, under normal circumstances as long as a reminder set the rules, to avoid another humiliating beating, it will comply with regulations.
-year-old see the old phrase goes, I see
often heard, but do not quite understand, her daughter was born, slowly found in education, the ancients really too TMD (emphasis added) wise up.
to warmth education experts say, to give children reason. Children less than three years old, understand the major principles it? Maybe. But more important is not so small children to reason, the most important is to establish rules, one-year-old child will understand the If the child is wrong, then even small children can not tolerate, we must immediately stop and correct and guide their behavior, do not believe her children will know why this argument, as long as it firmly in the first block error, the child will soon understand and make the right behavior. Once the child's deviant behavior and then develop a habit much more difficult to stop, the child will be confused. Within three years old, most children have formed habits, if you constantly correct the correction started, you do not post again for a shortcoming of struggle, the follow-up of education also will be farther along. XVII embroidery or dancing
day, her daughter's grandmother said to me, you come to speak with her, she is more willing to listen to your words, kindergartens do extra-curricular classes, Why let her girls go
learn to dance the best, but she refused to go to embroidery.
I called her and asked her, is not to the extra classes, she said, I said, what classes you want on it, her daughter said, I want to learn embroidery
, I have not embroidered over it, but grandmother let me to learn to dance. I: No reason grandmother, that is your school, not her go, you want to go even
what class you have the freedom, others have no control, but since it is your choice, you have to be responsible for their own , we learn.
end, her daughter regret to say, I just embroidered the A and B, C word embroidered half of class is over, did not have embroidered.
eighth, the results of their actions responsible for their own
district where many children, daughter, because they do not squeamish contrived, it can Zilai Shu.
daughter asked me one day, can bring their children to play, I answer, this is your home, you can call the shots, if you play with the children,
you can be arbitrary, but in the end have to put everything back the status quo, because you bring a friend, you are responsible.
very fond of the children come to my house, because free. Usually I would ignore them, they play them, and I do mine, and his daughter
will be responsible for hospitality, whether you eat, whether you play, all by her themselves.
will sometimes have a good time which makes a mess on the floor, leaving her daughter will organize them clean. If you do not clean up before taking the final clean-up on by the daughter herself. This is what we say good, she made the owner, she was responsible for the results.
ninth, floor
buns buns daughter appeared very normal, not like people care about, never seen her unhappy quarrel with friends. Her grandmother had been very worried, I have often complained that her daughter Norinari buns, later will suffer.
large class, she brought back a play the students, the students decided to send a book. Piles of books, she read a bunch, a bunch of the Mo Kanwan, and her daughter to read a bunch of students in the selection of a book, but she insisted that a student did not read her book. Daughter insists that her students also insisted, so the daughter said, I did not read the book, can not give you, but you can lend, I wrote a library card, you sign a good name, read the back to me. Two children seriously do a library card, sign name, write down the date.
buns just superficial, there is always the bottom line, when the touch in the end limit will come up with a solution, do not cause conflicts with friends. Forced her parents to let go and find small ways to solve their own problems, this is very necessary exercise drops. 141 # Author: Peach fish balls Reply Date :2010-9-20 7:14:00
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writing in primary school, the teacher asked the writing daughter can not write to me to teach. I took her to the front of the computer, taught her to open Google, fuzzy input essay topic, press the search button, and then told her that these are what you need writing, lug copy it, but you should have seen the teacher, so the whole of the copy it is very easy to find, you find a few pieces together much copied. Copy writing such a thing back cooked a resuscitation two or three back to back on the experience of four.
Why teach her copy writing it, second grade children, vocabulary rarely, it is difficult to write vivid writing, the best way is to copy someone else's. When she pieced together several articles, all articles must be carefully read, pick out a paragraph of available words and try to put these together into a coherent and complete composition.
Hey, I'm lazy, but this approach is indeed very effective.
twenty-first, doing homework till 10
second grade, because the school from his grandmother close, so he lived in his grandmother, but actually often do their homework to ninety o'clock, began to adults complained that too much school work, and later with her classmates and found that some of the same work done before six, some children and daughter to do the same as 90.6. In fact, her daughter and did not seriously concentrate on homework, play while doing so, of course, and later there was a time she looked at her grandfather every day to do, but others just do not look very effective. As a result, the landlord appeared very lazy. In fact, I just said to her very seriously, I know the amount of work, every day from today to do the job no later than 8:00, after 8:00 dared to do their homework, I'll throw the book. Her resistance, I'll tell the teacher, you will not let me finish the job, I did not pay. I laugh, then you talk to the teacher that good, anyway, people who pay no job is you not me, write your name on the blackboard, not me. Daughter of frustration, a whole month, every day I see her, a whole month, and her work are completed before six o'clock, then, it developed a habit, do not concentrate on looking at can be completed quickly.
why this can be so easily corrected her bad habit, in fact, there are two necessary conditions,
one I grew up instilled her life to her own responsibility, I do not She will be responsible, but also the implementation has been so, so she knows I say is true, she was his job not to pay the consequences.
Second, I grew up a certain set of rules are executed, may not perhaps like the next, so I said 8:00 and then threw her to do the book, although not really perform, but she knew if I will execute violation.
XXII trust
old daughter: I want to do extra classes on holidays?
me: Who is on?
daughter: of course I
on me: you asked me why on
-year-old daughter: Grading the teacher said, you can write, I do not consider it
me: Who test?
daughter: I test
me: birds do it with me and asked me why
-year-old daughter: I want to come to the students, do not know my family, her mother sent to the park entrance , come with me to pick up about it.
me: such a trivial matter but also to accompany me? You are not do not know the way, pick up his daughter
: I am not afraid of you cheated walked.
me: lie to you? First, you are 8 years old, the liar is too old, clearly articulate the mind, not keep family
Second, you are a girl, can not afford a large sell price, uneconomical
three, say to get you to sell to others to do his wife have children, you have not developed too small, now have to lie to you to keep a lot of years to make money, too lose
So, you are now is simply unwanted safest age, can cross the road safety.
daughter:. . . . . . . . . .
-year-old daughter
: grandfather they want to go traveling for a week, then who is going to pick me up after school ah
me: What then are so big then, come back with a key to their bus, daughter:. . . . . . . .
-year-old daughter: the school open games, I can apply for a project can be reported two, there are high jump, long jump, 100 meters. . . . . . . I think what newspaper you help Well, I can not decide
me: If your mother will help you with reliable idea, it will sow a tree on the age of eleven
daughter
: My jaw appliance, grinding gum, and I am going to fix what
: This month I did not empty, you set a time I bought tickets to you, you go to Shanghai to find a doctor fix, remember to bring good information and Money
daughter: the Expo opened, I have not been to it
me: so hot, I decided not to, vote in a drawer, themselves
daughter: I am afraid I lose ah
: Expo opened, Shanghai is now the safest place over many armed plain clothes, to go where you want to lose?
grandmother: either I go with
(grandmother is not assured must we go)
Pro to the former, Sui Suinian repeatedly asked her grandmother, how the car how the MTR Expo, how to eat
daughter: Can you not so bothersome, I can not take you.
Grandma: Well, I went to Shanghai will only follow what you do not bother
at 10, I received a daughter, Tel: mom, we are now on the train, the train point X X separation about X minutes, you count the time to pick us.
to the car after her grandmother laughed like flowers, and tolerance can not help, very excited to say
go to the hospital today, I am going to fix her braces, she bought subway tickets are responsible for route to the hospital, his doctor said registration, I really just followed her do not control what is her
look at the map to the Expo venue to pick routes, go to dinner with, go into the others are adults to take care of children, I just sat by her responsible for all meals delivered to my hands. I see things in the Expo, she told me that Grandma told me what you fancy is good, I bought you.
trust their children, not the words of encouragement, is a real understanding of your child, believe that their ability to free hand, the trust of two real XIII results are clouds
primary school after her daughter is still in kindergarten when his, do not do the exam go teach others. The subject of thinking to do sometimes and others not the same. Such as a math problem, a shop selling five apples morning, afternoon, sold seven pears, ask if you are the owner of the fruit into the what, why? Which fruit is only sold more than a simple comparison of what entered. Her daughter replied, if I were the owner went into strawberries, because I like to eat strawberries. When I accidentally saw this exam, the laugh to the wind messy. Well, I really do not think this is the problem, see this answer but the teacher must be a black line. One can imagine, though her performance is poor but not very good. Six months later, the teacher every day, his daughter's grandmother said the family who control her. Yes, her mother. The teacher, then ask her mother to the school trip.
I heard the news very sincere smile with her daughter, I do ignore you how to learn, mixed with like, but do you have to give me face, how they have to test it mingled Average , if I lose face, you no good fruit, is not it.
daughter's grandmother is very worried, every day, said to me, you tube of her achievements, ah, ah pipe, and finally one day I am angry, and told her that success is not important, people learn to do the important, primary learning third grade almost all the basic word knowledge, and basic addition and subtraction multiplication and division are all learned, even set foot on the community in general will use this,just beats by dre, even the best performance, not a man, do not take care of themselves is a waste, primary school This dog P thing, what is worth so nervous. Her grandmother was shocked, and you can not say the child. I:. . . . . . In fact, I already told her that said that. But then, I still had to add to her content is: you bad luck, was born late, you see, XX and XX and they did not read what the book can be mixed with a work, in general, the later it was born read it to find a job higher education, China's education system is, you did not have to pick, I asked you nothing, but you want to find work to support their own future, or is mixed with a university degree was. Daughter nodded agree and regret that he was born much too late to read more books mixed working.
end, the teacher sent a text message to require review, just my daughter and I walk on the outside, I said to her teacher told you end review, you need not look at her daughter shook his head, do it, I will, I nodded, I think so, you learn the little things that need review too pig.
the end of second grade, math teacher, said children's grandmother, the child will read up more difficult.
third grade, as usual, the results others began to fall, the daughter of the still tepid mixed with the same results, fourth-grade end of the semester, I got the news, mixed with her results to the third So with the family greeting in advance, this result on the line asked, not reward. Because her performance is mixed up, and I do not want her for this achievement and pressure, to redouble their efforts in order to maintain, say the study is for herself, her performance is, what to give awards for her achievements it. A free child's life easier to have a few years, in order that the clouds like some achievement, given up so as not worthy of ah.
fifth grade, sixth grade, she was still mixed with, one did not review too, says that the child is not there a sense of achievement in, do not drag the job, well, this is my hope. XXIV sign
daughter to study a few years of hard brush calligraphy, completion of regular script, running hand learning.
I: the running script to learn, as you usually use the regular script, you need my signature, you use the line of bookmarks click on it.
daughter: No, the teacher said it was not their sign.
me: cut, usually teachers tell you to read back the text how do you sign
daughter called me: that you are willing to sign, and now I do not want to sign on your behalf
Why am I so casually to help her daughter sign work, because to understand his daughter, the consequences of her behavior by their own responsibility, no matter how I sign the final result or if the back could not take her, so she is definitely not for their daughter, why not ramming paste
sign on my behalf, because she knew if she took the papers to 0 I signed, I will certainly sign up smiling and said to her, this result is really not easy to test out, what kind of day you want to test this fecal kind of, let alone know I go out, it's too humiliating. So she was completely unnecessary risks on behalf of the signature.
XXV, agreed after watching the film
A description of men and women I have a different book, his daughter does not know which to go out chops, seen with relish, some of which are male-female brain to see A piece different reaction, she did not understand, and came to ask me
daughter: A film is
me: naked, no clothes on is not the plot for the film
daughter of human mating: Have you seen it I: adults are generally seen
daughter: mating with cats as I do
: difference is that cat wearing a fur coat at all times the same posture for mating, while the majority of the people in the film A stripped of mating, but also point to wear clothes mating, mating with a different point of view the action, although the appearance different, but the exposure of sexual organs for humans and cats or other animals did not differ
daughter: I can see it?
me: not now, you are too small, A film provides at least 18 years old to see. This thing was no big deal, is to exaggerate the action sound to express the mating process between men and women, so you can read the future, join us and see.
Shaguai carefully at the edge of her husband, Ray was finally lifted to the wind in the messy and charred head in front of our cattle just sounded
her wife and eleven-year-old daughter to A convention watching films together to see A piece
agreement with
be watching to see A piece
A film
up to see A piece
see A piece
A piece
film XXVI, no money
daughter who had been buying them things, but it is not for money or the concept, because what are the adults dig to buy money.
two grade, I gave her five yuan per month, told her that from now on every month to give you five dollars, to buy anything with their own money. No two days she came to me that the school shop to sell the key sub-twice as expensive than outside, school, sell a dollar one, sell one yuan out of two. That, when very upset, because she just at school with their own money to buy one. Me: Yes, your five dollars can only buy five in school, outside you can buy ten. Stimulated a huge difference to her deeply. The next day after school, she came to me that was too expensive to buy, and asked if I could help her to bear half the price (fifty cents). I: No, Who told you before you buy do not compare prices, and say good, what are you looking for in this five dollars, the cheaper your Ye Hao Anyhow are you spend, I definitely will not Your behavior to buy this single.
Since then, her concept of money, gold is quite accurate the
to a restaurant dinner, packed in a million in cash out of the envelope to her, told her that I keep the pro Chat Gateway not empty Checkout, you running a bit. She is natural to go with the waiter checkout, for a invoice with the rest of the money and come back to me. I asked her after all the money you pay out-end accounts, she replied: No, that was asked about 4500, I ordered 45 to give them the results more, and they me a.
-year-old took her to Shanghai to see when the teeth in the car with her to chat, do not talk with a bank card with a cash card is a password. I put the card in the hospital let her go to her checkout, collected in her ear telling her password. Daughter: Actually, I guess what is in the car on the password, but the driver on board, I have not said.
daughter's support for the measured grip, I am quite pleased with his aging mother.
xxvii,
abroad with his family one day to chat, talk to colleagues and friends around a lot of kids, reading is not ye drops, chose to go abroad, I deeply BS.
I said to her daughter: Do you remember, later you can read the same as XX aunt pulled out of pure class, then we pay you the cost abroad, or would like to make money to go abroad so after their own, We will not pay a dime of your costs.
daughter nodded in understand. Xxviii, drawing class
fifth grade winter,
me: want to go to learn drawing, after you learn of this three-dimensional geometry is helpful, you can enhance your space imagination
daughter: Well
me: you can first try a winter vacation, and if do not want to learn, you can not learn, as long as the money to pay this quarter on completion of the line.
winter ends
daughter: Mom, I think it is better to learn it, the teacher said, a level entrance test points can be added.
me: want to learn what money in a drawer, to pay their tuition fees.
daughter: the teacher that I learned so long I have never seen you
: Luanjiang, the first time we find time to pay is not seen yet
daughter: he may not remember, but other parents will come then, you never come pick me
I: the need for it?
daughter: ah, no way in my asshole
educational theory (my dad saying, for my school's theory, though he knew that I was telling the truth), daughter, or more than other children better for their future consideration, we can see the child as long as real as they are responsible for someone else's theory that she would refer to their advantage, but to make judgments. 29, daughter of talent you have it
: Weng (her daughter's drawing teacher) said that some children learn school east west, the same results are not adopted, might as well concentrate on learning just like school was fine.
I: Master the need talent, no talent and then work can only be craftsmen, you have the talent to paint it?
daughter: No, our little girl, the teacher said she is very talented, a few days later than I learned to draw on the inside, and I was outside painting, I just sit tight than others , Seriously.
I: So ah, you are not talented but ordinary people, then efforts can not become the master, you seriously as a man can do is learn a variety of fur and more, ordinary people will not be Huhu .
I: The average teacher in this school can only be superficial here, the difference is to reach the epidermis or dermis, to concentrate efforts to reach the muscle tissue artisan class, and only truly talented efforts to reach the bone through the center.
thirty, self-control are not born
Because early, this period is actually written into the top ten, hey, forget
-year-old children within the first legislative rules revisit the truth, the truth understand it or not does not matter, but the rules must be strictly enforced, but there can be break time.
summer to provide her daughter to eat every day, a small cold, one day, her daughter made to eat one. I can answer, but one condition, you eat one today, then tomorrow, the day after tomorrow you can not eat, you can choose a daily, can also choose to eat a share of the next two days to give up. Daughter to choose to eat one, two days later she not been able to eat cold, so to break this rule only once and have not been broken.
daughter: I can do now to eat potato chips?
I: Yes, but now fast food, you eat three can now eat, but eat a meal to eat six.
daughter: Well, I still eat a meal
daughter: I can now go out and play sand it?
I: Yes, but now it is nap time, and if now you can play for half an hour to play, sleep up to play, can play one hour
daughter: I'm going to sleep.
we provided for her daughter, not the important day, such as birthdays, such as the Spring Festival. . . . . , Can not go out to buy things. One day to go with her to buy commodity market line, she stood next to the toy booth looked very carefully for a long time, her husband: Oh, can not buy. Her look of calm: I'm just looking ah.
who caught on, injuries end up with cover, I always could not help but to peel, has been stripping stripping, old wounds are not good, Although I know this is not good behavior, it is difficult to hold back. Daughter began to have this behavior, so I told her, that if you peel the cover, will leave a scar after the piece of skin, it is difficult to see. Since then, her wounds are all on the cover come off naturally, then peel off a not so amazing self-control I deeply ashamed.
XXXI, the girl is to keep the
just referring to the rich material, must be the daughter of eutrophication quietly subtle, a little deviation, the results support the material out of the woman is not installed upstarts like 13 female vanity .
Longines event is real, year-old daughter needs a watch, I gave her two, two watches style size and thickness are similar to the Mickey Mouse of the blue strap, cartoon chassis, Longines alligator strap, 18K gold watch, one more than the price a people, a value of more than ten thousand. The reason is one with a preparation, which only took like only what, anyway, there are differences other than price are similar. Of course, I am sure her daughter would choose Mickey Mouse. And daughter that watches, but because of the price difference between brands of different materials a hundred times, but essentially no difference.
I often put tens of thousands of cards to checkout her daughter, used to like. If you used to see them, do not feel great, will not go out to show off, show off the essence is to think this thing will do great. Eutrophication is the essence to make her believe that these things the money was no big deal, only to have the concept, the future was not easily deceived, the parents do not have this mentality is not going to eutrophication daughter, or else harm her.
XXXII, now not allowed to see me QQ
daughter on her computer chat QQ, suddenly announced to me, now I am not allowed to see QQ.
I: What is it ah? Is looking for a boyfriend (laugh, happy to say)
daughter: Luanjiang, how could (with laughter)
me: good bad, do not have a boyfriend and made so mysterious, boring
daughter : I am in the bar looking for a QQ group to join, told me about age, we are talking cartoon
me: not that something and ambiguous, kiss Well what what, what great
daughter: it is not , where animation is the talk of people
me: ah, virtual guy Yeah, you're far worse than the mother, your mother in the recent group chat real guy, is that Bell XX
daughter: I know, not that you have been looking at the thing
I: Yes, recently chatted with people killing pill, but that Shasha I love your mother, or where you give your group recommend, looks real people die like a dog, super nice
daughter: Yes Yes, generally this ultra-handsome main character are not the most important that the child would
requires skill sets, the first first the least likely of the most serious situation is right no big deal, such as a boyfriend, let the children know that this does not matter a little more remarkable on the secret, click on the child's half guard relieved.
When the children to tell you a secret, the above continue to be the most serious cases that say no big deal. Well, the rest of the guard is relieved.
then pulled with their children the same position, she told the guy when you chat animation, you let her know you are doing the same thing, much more than she talked, she this juvenile. Recommended twelve best interest of their people.
so-called secret to become a cloud, you know want to know, you are relieved of children wary xxxiii, small school of small
this period of preparation, thought that does not matter, but saw posted a few days after that or write about it.
little small on what to do to prepare before it
1, teach children to eat. On this, more than one year old baby when you can let them eat their own, not be long before they can get their own, of course, the beginning is certainly annoying. Many parents like to say is not lost at the starting line to get their kids do, how to eat their own children are not afraid of them lost it and feed himself exercise the child's hand-eye coordination, that exercise the brain, increase the child's self-confidence ( parents to let go, their children get old so-called reverse phase or not obvious). Children in the age of two and a half ago on a small small skilled use of chopsticks can be, how could the little hungry after the small to ourselves.
2, teaching children to wear their own clothes and shoes off. Nap up twenty or thirty children are sitting and the other teachers dress, you are afraid he chilled, frozen, but how could not yet, get yourself, how cold was.
3, to teach children their own toilet, wipe yourself PP. Do not be afraid children do not wipe clean, and more trained well, of course, in the winter, because the child is short hand clothes and more, you can ask the teacher for help.
4, for children to buy clothes to wear off easily. Such as the anterior cingulate (in this course to learn on a small small front buttoning a shirt, this is beneficial to brain development, fine motor), shoe buckles to magic, the kind of easy to wear off.
of course, is what I do, so little on the small children, the basic no such problems, many parents are distressed to see children not wearing warm enough to eat, you feel bad? How distressed the children themselves do not get early church. Teachers are people will be tired, you try to stop crying day in front of twenty or thirty children will not eat will not dress, in fact, the cry is the teacher. Xxxiv,
her four-year-old bar, took her to dinner after the play area, there are several seven-year-old boy in the play, daughter ran to join in the next, a little boy turned around and hit her up as a result, her daughter gave play to the gravel on the ground, of course, does not fall very light. The child man stared, and looked at her, and I look standing on the edge, know what to do, I can see quite nervous fear. I then moved 45 degrees up at the sky move. . . . . . Out of the shops had. 15 minutes and then come back to play his daughter has joined the ranks, very happy, come back tomorrow Shihai agreement.
home after her own treatment of the wound, I asked her if she did not fall after the strange little boy, her answer, he is not intentional, and I fall not too heavy, it just there is some blood, pain nor is it too much.
daughter did not even ask my reaction, because she knew even if she was knocked to the fracture of the children, and I will send her to the hospital rather than blame others. Because this is still her thing, the subject matter between the peers to solve her own judgments, blame and do not blame her own choice.
35, her daughter, though you are human, but can also be cast point machines
daughter: math test today, most people have 80 + test, I was 86, only three test 90 or more, a test of 99.5, normal test results are also up and down the 80 +.
me: Let me guess, the three 90 + in at least two boys, that boys must be 99.5.
daughter: how do you know so accurate (lips O word)
daughter: English test today, there are two fail, only five 90 +, that I had 92
me: must not pass the two boys
daughter: how do you then know
daughter: the final exam a lot of people 90 +, that I had 98
me: that the boys usually super good math , you managed to get an estimated score no higher
daughter: Hey, guess why you are so accurate
fifth-grade daughter has been developed, because never review these results truly reflect her the brain case, that his daughter is just an ordinary person with ordinary feminine brain, but also the future in science is unlikely to have great potential.
my sixth grade daughter: In your opinion, no chance to win out in science, but then, though you may not have a strong science-minded, but you boys off than the general language learning, strong. English does, it'll never get to use, accessible to fluently communicate in the future you the opportunity to perhaps more than others, China's exam-oriented education also have the advantage that the packing fraction calculation, you may be a little weak science, but the English training is strong, but also to some extent compensate for your weaknesses.
training in a circle after Akira, his daughter decided to go to English. Foreign teachers, four small class sizes, self-reported three years.
first day back I asked: The other three children are old school where you?
daughter: two to work, I am a looking for work
:. . . . . .
daughter: the teacher arranged for me to the next classroom teacher's lesson, I told her well, I do not listen to understand, first prep courseware it.
second time I asked: Today you do two hours of courseware it?
daughter: No, an hour and a hour I go to the teacher talk about something.
me: do courseware when a person? Teacher did not see you to help you?
daughter: how could a teacher to do, of course, do yourself a courseware
me: I find the teacher to talk about it?
daughter: first find my English teacher set a name, she took a bunch of my pick, I picked a short. Then set the next class with her time, talked something else also made the questionnaire sheets.
will plan for themselves, doing things their own daughter, although ordinary people, but I believe that her heart will be a lot less worry. XXXVI, mud horse
This is really a wonderful species, the first time I saw deeply impressed, recommended to her quickly. Together they search to find all versions of the photo and mud horse song, while listening to while overjoyed laughing and decided to buy a pair. But a call to play the N found, something that expensive to death, one as long as seven or eight million, a counter-offer and not under the agreement could be reached in the case only to give up. Anyway, will decline in value, so you can buy or a daughter agree.
may be bad taste, and sometimes we will sing aloud at home with mud horse all out of tune version of the song, happy for them.
xxxvii, poor mao
daughter: I heard that Mao did not die for decades still lying on the crystal coffin, rotten people visited
me: this man, though your mother I am BS him, but also very sympathetic to him. We Chinese people pay attention to put to rest, he died thirty years, and also made the specimens to visit, not buried peace.
daughter: Why should I do this to him?
me: do not know who the decision is not any grudges with mao, maybe when people visit his specimens with respect to him, after all that time he is a deified figure, but our generation he has no sense, let alone you this generation, now estimated to visit the young woman whose body was doing it to see the millennium as the mood to go.
daughter: dead specimens also made to visit people, really poor
me: your mother if I die, I remember looking for a tree buried in the ashes do fertilizers, the estimate is a total nutrient fertilizers. 38 cats
family has three cats, one white and yellow, all stray cats, the last summer in a white community stuck atop a tree called a day, year-old daughter went to their own security, said the cat get down to the tree, please help security, so security climb down to help her catch her home.
daughter adopted a cat milk is still in the stage only a small white, claim that this is her cat, the other two is the mother cat. Daughter's cat is the only male cat, slowly growing up point nature came out, went to bed planning the site, really a disaster, straw, or cat, although still sent for sterilization. Daughter holding her cat suddenly asked, men are prostate, prostate that male cats have it. I: This is really a problem, need to check.
male cats do have the original Ha, also like people will get inflammation, tut.
thirty-ninth, snakes
summer, her daughter at home, I go to work, she called and found a snake in the yard, do not know there is poison, long with yellow stripes, is not about one meter
for a call to another: the Internet finding out that she, like the snake, still do not know whether the toxic
third phone: my grandfather came, took the big scissors to repair the fence that snakes head and neck a pair of scissors , but not cut, the snake swam to pull out between the trees. Grandfather shows day to say, go.
night I go home, with Internet search, finally found the same snake, is a non-poisonous snakes. I said to her daughter: no poisonous snakes and not yellow significantly less poor, you should be alive at this thing. Sigh, this snake, then it is very expensive to buy, not necessarily always buy the meat is very fresh, if only the dead skin Pa Mei Mei can eat. Daughter was overjoyed, seeking to catch his father, his father replied: afraid, afraid. Called grandfather, grandfather back: too late, unhappy over to catch (I guess also a little scared of). N-playing phone is found to be no one to help her catch up, so to seek to catch the snake with me, I flatly refused, his aging mother I fear that the top things to comfort her: I'm afraid of. I: So who catch? Daughter: I catch you help me stand on top of playing like a flashlight.
I stood on the steps above to play flashlight, make a run at the posture, the daughter wearing disposable gloves in the hospital to find the snake, named after a long hard pull up this snake is still alive. Then she gently stroked the snake hand, murmured: good poor snake, I just pull for a long time, certainly killing me. At dawn tomorrow, then we decided to catch the snake out, I asked her how to do caught, daughter: of course, put ah. I: So you just not want to eat it it? Daughter: just do not think that it is a waste of dead snakes eat it, but of course, put a live snake
outcome, died the next day it hurt too much cut, do not know when summer did not dare eat dead , daughter depressed, did not have to let go was not any waste.
40 dogs
her love of animals and sometimes to shock others acquire, any size, whether she saw the dog come to be touching some hold, the bigger the dog the more love, had requested I only help her raise Great Pyrenees, I answered this city are not allowed to keep a large dog. Daughter: Then we moved to the countryside go.
some time, her daughter after dinner went to the hobby is a square with a variety of mixed dog stroll out, always report to me, today saw a dog, today saw a Soviet animal husbandry, today Tibetan Mastiff to play with one, or to a dog, and today was only the grass with the dogs looked great ..... One day to go home, to the community to see neighbors stroll an adult large dog, rush want me to stop, the dog flew away, the dog owner to the dog rope to her, smiled and said: This is the sled, do not bite. She was then holding the dog rope Flanagan dog stroll in the district where the two back and forth, back yard with them the way with the big dogs to chat to dinner.
Interestingly, no matter how the dog had never bitten her daughter, even a very extraordinary kind of fierce bite of the dogs to shut up. Cats and dogs are feeling extremely sensitive animals, while pretending to calm nervous person who can fool the people but it must deceive these animals, they will feel the human nervous, so it is easy to hurt them more nervous. The daughter of a friend from time to time these animals, she relaxed there is no hostility, so animals can relax, then fierce dogs so she can reach out and touch. I taught her the face of animals, if you are afraid, then do not pretend not afraid to hurt it as soon as possible before you try to escape or get rid of each other, but if you really are not afraid to relax, then do not hurt the animal will usually relax you, these animals will feel with your decision on your attitude. XLI sleep three minutes like
daughter very hour, a day to eat something before a nap, I do not agree, then find his daughter, I proposed a compromise, as long as she fell asleep three minutes, I called her up to eat. Her daughter no concept of time, but also know that three minutes is very little time, it was agreed, and told at least three minutes have to call her up, I am told have to fall asleep three minutes, eyes closed, not too light.
I always observed, an hour later, her daughter woke up a little sign, immediately stepped forward to pat and gently say, wake up, three minutes is up. Rushed her eyes open, my table function, you see, I am honored it, at least three minutes once called you, now you can eat up. Nodded her happy, I feel great sleep three minutes earned. This move in with her knowledge well before the bell, and then had no knowledge of minutes later. Sometimes her daughter would be insatiable demands sleep two minutes, although promised her no problem, but for realistic, I would say that three minutes is a minimum time, two points are too far, can not agree. She actually test it, then still one-third agreed.
42 medication
daughter is very small (I remember it was a year old), we usually drink green tea daily to maintain the mystery of her, she always stated not to drink, but by the I occasionally give her a secret, put it very mysterious, in fact, children do not know what green tea flavor, do not know why she can not drink, but so secretly carrying a mysterious person drink a small mouth is unusual pleasure to meet.
to the given medicines so when do we drink tea when he faces, state can not give her to drink, and I put medicine on Shaonei, pretending to secretly get a spoonful to her, fed her, and told, fast drink , do not let people have found. Drink and then quickly take her own cup to drink water and pretend that we did not do anything the way, do not let her attention entirely on the discovery, what did not care to drink, drugs still is quiet and green tea drinking the joy of satisfaction.
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(Reporter Sun Siya ) Yesterday, reporters learned to kill and bury dead aunt 's 22 -year-old man Henan Qian Zhi were all sentenced to death in the hospital market . Although Qian Zhi full compensation has been paid 90,000 models , but because of his murder and cruel means, and thus unable to escape capital punishment .
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court held that Qian Zhi whole constituted intentional homicide , criminal nature of the extremely poor circumstances are particularly serious consequences , must be punished according to law . The Court noted that although Qian Zhi all the major facts of the crime can be a true account of his family members also took some compensation for economic losses ,north face fleece outlet, but because of his criminal means cruelty , great harm to society , not his light punishment , and sentenced him to death immediate implementation , and to compensate families of the deceased 72 million yuan ( have to pay 90,000 yuan ) .
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Qian Zhi full on May 25 last year killed his aunt Humou . Public security organs of the deceased 's mobile phone screen , locked Qian Zhi all major crime suspects , and in Humou killed two months later, the entire captured Qian Zhi .
hearing the case , Qian Zhi full retracted . Prosecutor suggested to the court , all pleaded guilty Qian Zhi very bad , contempt , ignore the law, the court recommended the death penalty .
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